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.When you first contact the Mistress, you will be seeking information and answering questions as one equal to another. It is unnecessary, and in fact, presumptuous, to address her as "Mistress" and speak to her as if you were already her slave. Once an agreement has been reached and you have consented to submit to her power over you, then it is appropriate for you to address her as Mistress.Whether you are a novice or not, it is natural to be a bit nervous with a new person about such intimate things, but flippancy and attitude are not acceptable.

In addition, once the session is underway, you should strive to be as submissive and respectful as you can. Some slaves think that consciously bad behavior, such as being rude or disobedient will get them more attention or a more severe punishment. Novices may think that rebellious behavior is cute and amusing. Neither of these behaviors are acceptable. Respectful requests will be considered by the Mistress, but bad behaviors will put an end to your session. Be prepared to submit, or look elsewhere

Whether you are a novice or not, it is natural to be a bit nervous with a new person about such intimate things, but flippancy and attitude are not acceptable.

In addition, once the session is underway, you should strive to be as submissive and respectful as you can. Some slaves think that consciously bad behavior, such as being rude or disobedient will get them more attention or a more severe punishment. Novices may think that rebellious behavior is cute and amusing. Neither of these behaviors are acceptable. Respectful requests will be considered by the Mistress, but bad behaviors will put an end to your session. Be prepared to submit, or look elsewhere.

These are some other frequently asked questions - perhaps yours are here:

Q I have never seen a Domme before, and I don't know much about this... is that ok?

A I see many people who are new to dominance and submission. I can introduce you to many new things at a pace that's suitable for you.

Q What exactly would you do to me if I had a session with you?

A. Each session is different and individual. I do not do one-size-fits-all dominance. After our initial contact I will think about the information that you have given me. When you arrive for your session, We will discuss momentarily, and right away I will begin to plan what kinds of things I might do with you. You and I will negotiate the session so that stated boundaries are respected. I play with safewords, so that if something becomes too intense for you, there is a way for you to communicate with me about it. However, it is impossible to tell someone exactly what I would do with them after five minutes of phone conversation or one email!

Q Do you do any kind of barter in exchange for sessions?

A. Once in a very great while... and only if you really have something I want. I have household slaves, so don't offer to cook dinner, do housework or yardwork, give massages, paint my toenails, or wash my panties. As far as I am concerned, getting to do those things for me IS a session!

Q Do you see couples/women?

A. I very much enjoy seeing couples, whether the woman is dominant or submissive.

Be aware: Sessions with the Mistress can be erotic. I am a beautiful woman, and it is not unnatural that you would desire me. But sessions with the Mistress will not include actual sex. I understand having sexual fantasies about dominance and submission, and we can verbally explore those during a session. I can create fantasy role plays connected with sexual feelings that you might have. But I am not going to have sex with you. When you contact me, do not ask me to have sexual contact with you. I will not respond to people who ask me to have sex with them.

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